Monday, March 9, 2009

Game on.

A great visit with the oncologist today (what a strange sentence).  
Dr. McCoy spent a lot of time explaining all of the results from last week's tests.  Here's my take (and save your heckling--I realize webMD and mayoclinic.org don't qualify me to explain much of anything). Chris aced them all...bone marrow is clear, PET scan didn't show any additional rotten spots, literally blew them away on his lung test, heart was perfect, LDH was normal and some blood sedimentation test rated him as a 1 (the lower the better).  He's pretty much the picture of health except for this lymphoma thing.  He is officially staged as having 2A Classic Hodgkin's.  Given what we already knew, this was the best possible news he could have gotten today (second only to "Just Kidding").  

So, it's time to get after it.  Chris chose to start chemo this Thursday rather than wait until next week.  He'll have chemo every other week for the next two months with a radiation chaser.  We've gotten some great chemo pointers from Allison and Josh, but any other ideas about how to prepare and/or pass the time in the infusion center are welcome.  We do have a bootleg version of Slumdog Millionaire to watch on the laptop.  (I would thank the neighbor who dropped it off, but it might get her in trouble with the feds).

Janie was very concerned and quiet tonight after I picked her up from MMargaret's.  She asked very sweetly (and to know her is to know that is not her normal tone of voice), "But what are they going to do to Daddy on Thursday?"  I pulled the car over and tried to explain how they would put the chemo into his body to start fighting the cancer.  "Like karate?  Yes, Tate--a lot like karate.  And the chemo will be  hi-yahing so fiercely that it will make Dad pretty tired and probably make his hair fall out."

"HIS HAIR WILL FALL OUT?  HE WILL BE BALD?  Yes, for a while."
I braced myself for tears or at the very least more questions.  And then they started cracking up... I mean we had to race home to avoid people wetting their pants they were laughing so hard.  

Janie even tried out her new joke tonight (taught to her by Maggie, I think).  "Dad, why did the eagle get his hair cut?  Because he wanted to be a BALD eagle!"  Usually our kids' jokes don't even have a punch line--much less one that is topical.  

So, they appear to be tough like their Dad and slightly warped like their Mom.  Both will serve them well.  

Thanks for all of the calls, notes, e-mails and especially your prayers. (We got a very sweet prayer-gram today from Germantown Baptist in TN.)  God is good, life is good and while Hodgkin's was not something that Chris wanted on the '09 calendar--he is ready.  
Good night--K




10 comments:

  1. That is great news about his overall health (could that have to do with the fact that he is so much darned younger than the rest of us!?) and the staging being the best possibly scenario!

    After being a "chemo partner" with Barb for the last couple years, I guess I am a veteran of some sorts and ready to share any knowledge to help you guys.

    I think Chris will look good bald....maybe?

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  2. I am so pleased to hear about Chris. I know there will be some rough days, but you guys have such an incredible attitude. When mom ( Mamie ) found out she had bone cancer, she made us think it was no big deal. She goes for her treatment, or as she calls it , her shot, and never complains. i used to get frustrated with her because i thought she wasnt telling us everything. now i realize it was such a gift for us. to watch her walk thru it with such strength, knowing God is in control no matter what. You and Chris are doing the same with your kids. Tell Chris he is a hottie bald or not! we love you guys
    leigh ann jones

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  3. We're tracking right along with you guys...thank you for the updates! The Kirby's

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  4. Although I wish the drs had said "just kidding," it sounds like the news is as good as could be - I'm so glad. Thanks for giving me the right words to use when the subject comes up - it hasn't yet, but surely will. Love you and I'm here for whatever I can do!

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  5. Thinking of you all.
    The Matthews

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  6. Rob and I are thinking of you all daily. Glad to hear the tests came back with A pluses in so many categories. It may be time for a playstation 2 mini or some other game device to pass the time in tank. I suspect your kids aren't allowed to have one and you don't want them to have (but alas, secret, sneaky parent behavior is allowed in these situations.) Otherwise, Uno and more bootlegged DVDs.

    Love to you all.
    Howard

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  7. Good news! Best of luck today, Chris. We'll be thinking of you. Love and hugs, Jennie and Bradley

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  8. Kick 'em in the butt Cheyenne! Love, Slime

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  9. MY NAME IS STACEY AND I AM A FRIEND OF LINDLEY. WE WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. OUR UNCLE IS GOING THROUGH CHEMO ALSO. HE HAS NOT LOST ANY OF HIS HAIR AT ALL. IN FACT HE HAD FUNGUS ON HIS NAILS AND ALL OF IT HAS CLEARED UP SINCE HAVING CHEMO TREATMENTS. HIS SKIN AND HAIR ARE MORE VIBRANT. JUST REMEMBER THAT ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE WITH CHRIST. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND REMEMBER THAT PEOPLE ARE THINKING ABOUT YOU AND PRAYING FOR YOUR RECOVERY.

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  10. As we say in our house: "hair is waaaaay over-rated."

    Chris will join some very fine bald men - and make them jealous when his grows back!

    Chins up.

    Becky & Trevor Jordan

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